You’re pregnant…don’t ignore adoption.

By August 14, 2017Info, pregnancy
you're pregnant...adoption

Kate Mulgrew, Joni Mitchell, and Albert Einstein. Believe it or not, each one of these celebrities at one point in their lives conceived a child they chose not to parent. They are biological parents who chose adoption.

Notice how I didn’t say they “gave up their baby for adoption”? We hear this phrase all the time, but it’s completely inaccurate. As one of our favorites, Brave Love, puts it:

“We understand that adoption is not for everyone. Ideally, no one wants to separate mother from child. So often the brave act of placing a baby for adoption is viewed in a negative light, when in reality it is a selfless, difficult, and loving act a birth mother can make for her child.” 


When women come to our clinic, they may not know how they want to move forward regarding their pregnancy. It’s for this reason we like to educate on all three pregnancy options: parenting, abortion, or adoption. Regardless of a client’s decision, she should have all she needs after her Clarity appointment to consider each choice. 

After more education, some women find adoption is a better fit for them and their goals than they initially thought. In fact, adoption and abortion have many similarities:

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Adoption is one of those choices that is often least considered because of false stigmas. However, now biological moms can select the parents they desire for their child and have a connected relationship with them (like receiving information about the child as he or she grows or even annual visits).

Is adoption for me?

Almost daily here at Clarity, we hear a laundry list of reasons of why someone would never consider adoption even though they do not want to be a parent and are completely on the fence about an abortion.

“It would be too difficult.”

“It would make me a bad mother to have a baby and then ‘give it up.’”

“I would be humiliated for the world to know I am pregnant.”

But you know what? Adoption is beautiful and brave and admirable. Hard? Yes. But so is parenting. So is abortion (just Google “abortion physical and emotional side effects” and pick one of the thousands of articles that come up). Plus, adoptive families are amazing.


Any pregnancy decision is a big decision. If you’re interested in learning more about adoption, Clarity can give you all the information you need and connect you with one of our wonderful partner adoption agencies. Schedule a pregnancy test, ultrasound, or nurse consultation now.

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